Today my subject is "a family member you dislike" - not exactly the best choice for a somewhat public platform.
Hi, family reading this blog!
Really, though, there isn't a single member of my family, immediate or extended, that I don't like. I sat for a little while, trying to come up with one, but I just couldn't do it. And I'm not saying that because they may or may not be lurking around reading. Even if I was doing this challenge in a journal, with the guarantee that no one would see it, I wouldn't be able to come up with a single family member I dislike.
When it comes to pets, though, there is one who is less than my favorite. dun dun dun.
A certain cat joined the family after I moved away.
I don't know that I really dislike her. I just don't like her.
Actually, rewind: let's just establish that I do have a mild cat allergy, so liking a cat in the first place is rather an up-hill battle for me. Despite that fact, though, I really have loved two of the several cats who have belonged to my family over the years.
The First One came into our family shortly before I moved to college, and he very quickly wriggled his way into my heart. I can't spend much time with him because of being allergic, but he is so very wonderful. He just wants to love and be loved. He has never shown the tiniest bit of feistiness toward anyone that I've ever seen.
Ironically, the other cat whom I have loved couldn't have cared less whether or not I loved her, and would frequently box and bite my ankles just because I walked past her...
A few years ago, the Interloper joined my family, immediately adopting our home as her realm, and never minding how we felt about it. She reigns supreme, and if her servants do not feed or pet her as required, they will know her disapproval by unidentifiable sounds and unnervingly steady eye-contact from the largest green eyes you have ever seen in the face of a petite cat.
All this, really, I could be fine with, and still like her fairly well, though probably not as much as the precious First One, but there is a portion of her behavior that is just inexcusable.
She is constantly mean to the First One, and he is too sweet and yielding to stand up for himself.
It's really the saddest thing in the world to me. She doesn't even need provocation - he can be innocently minding his own business, and she just ambushes him to make sure he still knows she's in charge around here. She torments his poor little heart out - as soon as he's settled comfortably in a sunny spot for a little nap, she pushes him out of it, sits in it for two minutes, then moves elsewhere, because she didn't really care about that spot in the first place. She just wants to constantly aggravate him.
Honestly, I live in constant fear he'll decide one day that it's too much to deal with and he's just going to move in with the neighbors...
1 year ago