In my last post, I mentioned that I am thankful for friends who daily show me new and wonderful ways to love God and people. One of those friends is Abigail. Her birthday was a little while ago, and she mentioned something on her blog about having done this thing in the past where, in the days leading up to her birthday, she talked about people who had been a good influence on her life. I'm going to do almost exactly that, spotlighting some friends I have learned the important lessons of How-to-Love-People and How-to-Love-God from in the past year.
Mind you, I only have a few days until my birthday, so there won't be too many people on here and I've learned so much from so many different people!
Maybe I'll just have to continue this series after my birthday . . .
Anyone want to hazard a guess as to who my first fine "Featured Friend" (Too much alliteration?) will be?
Now how did you know that?
I've known Abigail for as long as I can remember.
She actually started out as my babysitter. (I love to say that to people when they ask how we met.)
About the time the gap in our ages began to close, she went to college in New Zealand (I know. I was jealous too.) But immediately after she came back from NZ, she set up a Bible Study for some of the younger, just-starting-college girls in our church. That Bible Study was a great growing experience for me and I'd say it's when Abigail's and my friendship really blossomed into what it is today.
Unfortunately . . . just kidding, Abigail . . . Eventually the inevitable happened and Abigail got married. She's moved all over the country, but we've managed to stay in touch quite well and she has continued to encourage me in my walk with the Lord and be a fantastic example to me of how to love.
Last summer, Christa and I took a lovely journey to visit Abigail in Georgia. After we were greeted by a cook-out, a sunset, and some fireworks, we came to Abigail's house and what did we find?
Ever since the days of our original Bible Study, Abigail has been a superb hostess. She has welcomed us into her home (wherever it may be) and filled it with activities, movies, music, food, and whatever else a heart could desire. Things may not always turn out just the way she intends for them to (we certainly didn't get to all the "Possible Week Activities"), but, even if things don't go according to plan, she's happy as long as her guests are happy. I'm pretty sure that's one of the most important lessons an aspiring hostess can learn.
Recently, Abigail came up with the idea of having a "Bloggin' Bible Study."
I watched through the first study, read other people's contributions, and thought Man, I wish I had that kind of time. Then I realized I do have that kind of time. I'm just using it for other, less productive things. So, when Abigail decided to do a second Bible Study, I got excited and decided to join in . . . obviously a little late. But, better late than never, right? (Actual Bible Study coming very soon.)
I've learned, by watching her example, that sometimes the best way to love God is just to dive right in and love Him. Simple as that. He doesn't require a great fanfare or a set aside time or a particular mindset. He just requires our time and our love. Those aren't so hard to give, whether you're an army-wife-mom-of-a-one-year-old or a working-girl-writer-on-the-brink-of-college-graduation or anything else on the spectrum.
Thanks Abigail, for loving me and for loving God out in the open and above all else.
1 year ago